Why do certain Females believe that a man is responsible for their actions? A girl gives it up and a party it is the guy’s fault. A girl gives it up at a party, in her room, or in a back alley and it’s the guys fault. He seduced her. As if we have forgotten in the 21st century that it takes two to tango. We always here that guys are thinking about sex all the time. Ok, and girls are thinking ‘bout what Molecular Physics? Come on, girls think about sex as much if not more than guys. I just can’t figure out why some females put themselves in the positions that they do. I know some of the smartest, most attractive mature females that cry just as much as the girl you would consider promiscuous when their “man” is caught doing something he should not have. They always fail to mention that while they are on their way to a MBA, Tyrone is back in the hood barely attending community college.
People, especially females in my opinion, too often see what they want to and ignore what is right in front of their faces. In a significant other we all seem to seek the fantasy rather than the truth. Yea, I can work with that. No you can’t sister, if he isn’t doing A, B nor C he will never get to XY or Z. It is simple logic you have to begin to finish, and too many so called relationships never really begin and so they never fail to end. Then, once the dastardly deed has already been done, we all look to place blame. Did he cheat; was he simply not good enough, what happened? So much speculation on a topic only two people are experts on? Why?
Being the nerd that I am I, I have never and will never claim to be the excerpt on love and relationships. With that said I also realize that I may not always show it but I am still very young. Yea but, I can only say what I see with my own eyes and my mind’s eyes. What I see is that love is not logical, or at least what we consider love. The human emotional heart transcends any experimentation or innovation the human mind can come up with. In our minds we strive to be all we can be, in our heart we settle for what makes us feel good no matter what level it leaves us on. I am not sure that that in its self is such a bad thing, but what I am sure is that it leaves us weak. When a girl can see her boyfriend cheat, feel her husband beat her, or know that he is just not a good man, she is weak. We tell young men to think with their head not their penis, and we tell females to stay away from boys. Why?
There is a double standard that exists between young men and women. A young man that has many sexual partners is a player, a young women that does the same thing is a whore. That is wrong and sets a bad example in the heads of everyone as to what is allowed and what is not. However, a young lady that lies on a man is “traumatized”, while a young man’s same lie is considered vindictive at least. This sets as bad an example, true equality is exactly that. A relationship where no one wears the pants and two people are seen the same way regardless of what is between their legs….
